13 Nov Want to create happy memories that’ll last a lifetime? Here’s how…
via Eric Barker
Your first kiss. Graduation. Your first job. Your wedding day. Birth of your first child.
These are the big memories that we all cherish. But there are other little memories that stick out because they had such a powerful emotional impact on you. Moments that enriched your life, bonded you with others and helped you define who you are.
Well, the latter are just “magic”, right? Serendipity. Can’t engineer that. They just “happen”…
*Writer rolls his eyes so hard he gets a migraine.*
Yeah, and sometimes they don’t. More often than not, one day rolls into the next, one month rolls into the next, you blink your eyes and you’re staring down the barrel of another New Year’s Day saying: where the heck did the time go?
Serendipity can be a bus that never arrives. So why do we leave special moments to chance? And why do we not do more to create those special memories for others — the way we’d like them to make some for us?
We get tired. We get lazy. And then boom — suddenly CVS is loaded with Christmas ornaments and it signals the end of another year. No good. If we want great memories we have to make them.
But how do you do that? What makes some little moments so powerful? And others the epitome of “meh”?
Chip and Dan Heath have a new book that lays out the science you need to know — The Power of Moments: Why Certain Experiences Have Extraordinary Impact.
Time to learn how to construct more events that will restock your reminiscence reservoir. Boost your nostalgia number. Fill your flashback fund.
Let’s get to work…
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