17 Oct 15 things you might want to GIVE UP for more happiness
Being happy should be simple! Give up things for happiness? Maybe it sounds some insane rules to become happier, But if you really want to be happy, you need to stop doing these (you will get the list below, please continue reading) fifteen things.
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15 Things You Must Give Up To Be Happy & Happier
Here is a list of 15 things that, if you give them will make your life much easier and much, much happier. We cling to so many things that cause us a lot of pain, stress and suffering, and instead of letting go, rather than allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy, we cling to them. No longer. From today we will give up all those things that no longer serve us, and we will fight for change. Are you ready? Here we go:
# 1. Relinquish your need to always be right.
There are many of us who can not bear the thought of being wrong. Always wanting to be right, we risk ending up with great relationships or cause a lot of stress and pain, for us and for others. Just not worth it. Whenever you feel the “urgent” need to have a fight about who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or rather be friendly” What difference will there be? Is your ego really so large as to not being able to avoid it?
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# 2. Relinquish your need for control.
You must be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether you are loved ones, co-workers, or just weird you find on the street – only it allows them to be. Let everything and everyone to be as they are and see how much better it will make you feel.
“By letting go everything is done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning. “Lao Tzu
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# 3. Waiver of guilt.
Relinquish your need to blame others for what they have or do not have, so you feel or do not feel. Stop wasting your qualities and begin to take responsibility for your life.
# 4. Relinquish your inner dialogue self-defeating.
How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative mindset, polluted and repetitive? Do not believe everything your mind is telling you, especially if it is negative and counterproductive. You can be better than that.
“The mind is a superb instrument if used properly. However, if misused it becomes very destructive. ” Eckhart Tolle
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# 5. Waiver beliefs that limit you
What you can or can not do, on what is possible or impossible. From now on, you will no longer allow your beliefs limit you and keep you trapped in the wrong place. Open your mind and experiment!
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