26 Sep Happiness and success might be just 2 words away!
via the Ladders by Eric Barker
Seriously: Just two words.
Seems like this should be a very short post, right?
Here’s the quick and dirty:
- The word “yes” leads to happiness.
- The word “no” leads to success.
For happiness say yes
“Yes” creates opportunity. Saying yes a lot makes more things happen.
And research shows that lots of little good things are the path to happiness. Spending money on many little pleasures beats rare big positives.
One researcher, for example, interviewed people of all income levels in the United Kingdom and found that those who frequently treated themselves to low-cost indulgences— picnics, extravagant cups of coffee, and treasured DVDs— were more satisfied with their lives. Other scientists have found that no-cost or low-cost activities can yield small boosts to happiness in the short term that cumulate, one step at a time, to produce a large impact on happiness in the long term.
Saying yes to activities and events keeps you busy — and studies show you’re happier when you’re busy.
The happiest people are those that are very busy but don’t feel rushed:
Who among us are the most happy? Newly published research suggests it is those fortunate folks who have little or no excess time, and yet seldom feel rushed.
So say yes to things and stay active — especially socializing, which makes us happier than almost anything else.
Having a better social life can be worth as much as an additional $131,232 a year in terms of life satisfaction.
And research shows that making more opportunities — saying yes — actually makes you luckier.
Hold on. I know what you’re thinking…
…keep reading the full & original article HERE